You are not alone, my friend!
I was right there, where you are right now.
Standing there, feeling lost and overwhelmed.
It wasn’t pretty. I can tell you that much.
In fact, if anything, it was heartbreakingly painful.
I needed a solution.
And I needed it yesterday.
I looked and searched and dug through pages of content. I looked through marriage books and my teaching resources.
I found the treasure of SPICE.
What is this treasure of SPICE I speak of?
SPICE is a holistic view of sexuality and marital communication. SPICE stands for Spiritual, Physical, Intellectual, Communicative and Emotional. SPICE views our sexuality as involving the whole person. By using these different aspects of sexuality, couples can communicate in a way that leads to a more intimate and trust-filled marriage.
I was so excited to discover the treasure of SPICE. But, I had a dilemma.
How do I implement this amazing treasure in my everyday life? How can I unlock this treasure to benefit the couples I work with?
So, I did what everyone does and hit Google!
I did find some useful information, a few nuggets that gave me hope but did I find the magic pill I was looking for?
No.
So, I did the next best thing. Yes, I created my own magic pill.
I wanted simple, easy to use tools for improving communication in my marriage that I could use on day 1. I wanted simple ways that could help me have deeper intimacy with my husband. I wanted to help my clients experience the same improved communication and deeper intimacy in their own marriages.
The result?